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Brian D. McAndrew, known lovingly as Brian, passed away on March 31, 2026, in Monmouth Beach, New Jersey, at the age of 81 after a courageous battle with common bile duct cancer. Born on October 6, 1944, in Red Bank, New Jersey, Brian lived a life marked by devotion to family, education, and service to others. He was a Christian whose values were reflected in the way he treated those around him, with kindness, humility, and a steady sense of purpose. Those who knew him will remember him as optimistic, generous, and funny, qualities that brightened the lives of his family, friends, colleagues, and all who had the pleasure of spending time with him.
Brian devoted his professional life to education and public service. He earned a Doctorate of Education from Rutgers University , a testament to his commitment to learning and leadership, and went on to serve as Superintendent of the Monmouth County Vocational School District. In that role, he made a lasting impact through his dedication to students, educators, and the broader community. He approached his work with intelligence, integrity, and a deep belief in the value of education as a path to opportunity. His leadership was respected by many, and his influence will be remembered by those whose lives were shaped by his guidance. Outside of his career, Brian embraced life with energy and curiosity. He enjoyed watching baseball, basketball, and football, and he followed sports with the enthusiasm of someone who appreciated both competition and camaraderie. He was also a marathon runner, a pursuit that reflected his discipline and determination.
Later in life, he found joy in walking the boardwalk, where he could enjoy the outdoors and the simple pleasure of a peaceful stroll. He loved cooking, was an avid reader, and had a strong knowledge of history and current events. He was the kind of man who could carry on a thoughtful conversation, share a laugh, and make those around him feel at ease. Travel was another source of happiness for Brian, especially when it involved his family. He loved to travel with them and took great joy in taking his grandchildren on trips and excursions. These experiences created lasting memories and reflected the importance he placed on togetherness, discovery, and shared adventure.
His family was the center of his world, and he cherished every opportunity to spend time with them. Brian is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Helen McAndrew; his daughters, Jodie Crochet and Kristin Stefankiewicz; his sons-in-law, Richard Crochet and James Stefankiewicz; his brothers Thomas McAndrew and Jerry McAndrew and their families, and his beloved grandchildren, Bailey, Tanner, Trevor, Grady, and Nicollette. He was predeceased by his brother Michael McAndrew.
He will be deeply missed by all who loved him and by those whose lives were enriched by his presence. Brian’s life was one of accomplishment, warmth, and devotion. He will be remembered not only for what he achieved, but for the way he lived, with optimism, generosity, humor, and a genuine care for others. His legacy endures in the family he loved, the students and colleagues he guided, and the many memories he leaves behind.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, April 7 from 4-7 pm at the Damiano Funeral Home in Long Branch. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 8 at 10:30 am at St. Michael's R.C. Church in West End, Long Branch followed by an entombment at Woodbine Mausoleum in Oceanport. In lieu of flowers, donations are requested to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105 Web: http://www.stjude.org/, Tunnel to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island NY 10306 Web: https://tunnel2towers.org/ or Monmouth Beach First Aid Squad, 26 Beach Road, Monmouth Beach, NJ 07750. The family invites you to leave a letter of condolence by selecting the Tribute/Guestbook link above.
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St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105
Web: http://www.stjude.org/
Tunnel to Towers Foundation
2361 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island NY 10306
Web: https://tunnel2towers.org/
Monmouth Beach First Aid Squad
26 Beach Road, Monmouth Beach NJ 07750