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Howard Jack Panken, 82, passed away on January 29, 2025, in Neptune, NJ. Born on June 29, 1942 in Newark, Howard was a man of humor and generosity, known for his endless jokes and captivating stories.
Howard attended primary school in Belmar and Asbury, graduated from Asbury Park High School, and furthered his education at New York University. He spent his career as a dedicated sales representative in the garment industry, specializing in women's clothing. His professional life was marked by a natural charisma and an ability to connect with people, traits that served him well both personally and professionally.
A veteran of the US Army, Howard served honorably from 1969 to 1971, during which time he was stationed in Korea amidst the Vietnam War. His stories from his service, filled with laughter and light-heartedness, left a lasting impression on all who heard them. Howard had a unique ability to find humor in nearly every situation, his generous spirit, and his unwavering support for his loved ones will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew him.
Howard's passions included visiting the racetrack and following various sports. He was rarely seen without his baseball cap and a race program in hand. His love for sports extended beyond personal enjoyment as he enthusiastically supported the games of Jimmy and Andrea Pappas, treating them as his own family.
Howard was preceded in death by his parents, Edith Rosen Panken and Max Panken; his sister, Harriet Blank; and his brother, Arnold Panken. His life was one of active engagement with his community and unwavering support for his family, including his sister Harriet whom he cared for devotedly. He is survived by his dear lifelong friend Carole Pingitore of Ocean; Carole's sister Patty Pappas and her husband Jimmy; his nephew Jimmy Pappas and his wife Alyssa; his niece Andrea Pappas and his great nephew, James Pappas.
A memorial gathering will be held at the Damiano Funeral Home in Long Branch on Friday, February 7 from 12 pm until the time of the service at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, an organization close to Howard's heart. The family invites you to leave a letter of condolence by selecting the Tribute/Guestbook link above.
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St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
501 St. Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105
Web: http://www.stjude.org/