Thomas J. Weir, Sr.

Thomas James Weir, Sr., known affectionately to friends and family as Tom or Pop, left this world on March 22, 2026, at the age of 86, in Monmouth Beach, NJ. Born on May 30, 1939, in Nutley, NJ, Tom grew up with the steadfast values and strong work ethic that would define his life. A graduate of Bloomfield High School's class of 1957, his early career began working in the construction business framing houses, where he honed his carpentry skills before embarking on a successful sales career in home building.

Tom's charisma and dedication quickly made him the number one salesman for Miami Carey Kitchen and Bath Products and Capital Windows and Doors for many years. His entrepreneurial spirit led him to later establish his own sales business, representing many other building product companies, a legacy he would eventually pass on to his son. Even after retirement, Tom's passion for his work was evident as he continued to check in on deliveries and maintain a presence at the business he so loved.

Aside from his professional accomplishments, Tom was a skilled carpenter. He built his own homes, crafted beautiful additions with meticulous care. Tom's hands were rarely still, as he was a master "tinkerer" who could fix anything that came his way. This talent was just one of the many ways he expressed his love for those around him.

Tom's interests were as broad as his talents. He relished the quiet patience of hunting and fishing, activities that reflected his appreciation for nature and the simpler pleasures in life. Often referred to as "Farmer Brown" he knew almost everything about all animals. He also enjoyed fine dining, savoring a scotch or Rob Roy, and most importantly, spending quality time with his family. His grandson Jarrett held a special place in his heart. “Pop” was Jarrett's biggest fan, never missing a sporting event and beaming with pride at his grandson's accomplishments. Pop also delighted his family with his culinary skills, especially his clams & linguini and sausage & peppers which will be missed.

Tom is survived by his son, Thomas Weir, Jr., his daughter-in-law Lisa Weir, and his adoring grandson, Jarrett Weir. He is preceded in death by his beloved wife, Rosemary Weir (Valvano), whose memory continued to be a source of strength and joy throughout his life.

Those who knew Tom would describe him as a handyman, kind, wise, and generous. He had a warmth that drew people in and a sense of humor that kept them close even in his last days. His many nurses and therapists got such a kick out of his sarcastic wit.

As we bid farewell to Thomas James Weir, Sr., we celebrate a life well-lived, a man well-loved, and a presence that will forever be cherished in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to have known him.

Friends and family can pay respects at a memorial gathering on Thursday, April 2, 2026 10 a.m. until the time of service at 12:30 p.m. at Damiano Funeral Home, 191 Franklin Avenue, Long Branch.

A special thank you to the VNA nurses, therapists and hospice care team who were a comforting part of his recent health challenges. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Thomas can be directed to Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey Foundation, 3600 State Route 66, FL 4, Neptune, NJ 07753 or vnahg.org/support-hospice

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